Why does God allow suffering?
This is the question that hurts most, and the one that least deserves a quick answer. Here is what the Christian faith says — and what it does not say.
The question that stays
If you have arrived here after a diagnosis, a bereavement or a sleepless night, know this first: your question is not a lack of faith. It runs through the Bible from beginning to end. A whole book, Job, is about nothing else. A third of the psalms are laments. “How long, Lord?” comes back so often it is almost a formula.
The Christian faith does not ask you to pretend everything is fine.
What the Bible does not do
It does not explain every instance of suffering. When Job’s friends try to justify his misfortune with neatly tied arguments, the book contradicts them: they have spoken wrongly (Job 42:7). Be wary of anyone with a quick explanation for your pain.
Nor does it say that suffering is good, or deserved, or that you should “stay positive”. At the tomb of his friend Lazarus, knowing he is about to raise him minutes later, Jesus weeps (John 11:35). He does not deliver a lesson. He weeps.
What it nevertheless affirms
That God is not the author of evil. The Bible traces the tearing back to sin — that rupture between humanity and God which brought death into a world not made for it (Romans 5:12). That does not mean your ordeal is a punishment for something: Jesus explicitly rejected that shortcut (John 9:1-3).
And that none of this escapes God. He does not merely endure history; he is carrying it towards an end he has promised. How he holds together his sovereignty and our freedom, the Bible does not explain — and Christians who claim otherwise are saying more than they know.
That God did not watch this tearing from a distance. This is Christianity’s most singular claim, and it sets Jesus radically apart from every figure who promises serenity by rising above pain: God entered it. Betrayed, tortured, executed. On the cross, Jesus himself cries out “Why have you forsaken me?” (Mark 15:34) — the question you may be asking, in the mouth of God.
That death will not have the last word. Christians await a world where God will wipe away every tear (Revelation 21:4). Not because the tears will not have counted, but because they will finally be wiped away.
What that does not settle
It still does not say why your ordeal, yours, now. I am not going to pretend otherwise. The Christian faith offers a presence in suffering, not an equation that solves it.
What may help today
- Speak to God plainly, anger included. The psalms give you words when you have none left.
- Do not stay alone. Pain carried by several people is still pain, but it stops being isolation.
- Look for professional help when it is needed. Prayer and medicine are not rivals.
- One step is enough. It does not have to be a big one.
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